Why are we afraid of the things that we might need to fix?

Do we actually need to fix them?

Are we the problem or is it them?

If we’re the consistent half that isn’t getting what we’re looking for then why wouldn’t we believe it’s us that’s the problem?

But what’s considered a “problem” or the “missing link” that leads to rejection?

The google definition of rejection is -the spurning (pushing away) of a person’s affections. 

Why would you push me away?

Why would I push you away?

I like you dont i? 

And you like me?

So why might rejection happen?

Personal reasons? Cue The infamous “i need to focus on myself” or “it’s not you it’s me”.

But at some point we believe that someone is worth not saying those words to because even at your lowest times, they bring you up, naturally.

So then what isn't enough? 

What makes me someone you’re willing to miss out on?

What makes me not fear losing your attention? Why would I walk away?